Enabling Versus Caring
Enabling |
Caring |
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I protect | I share | |||||||||||||||||
I control | I confront | |||||||||||||||||
I carry their feelings | I am sensitive | |||||||||||||||||
I don’t listen | I listen | |||||||||||||||||
I rescue | I don’t rescue | |||||||||||||||||
I fix | I let consequences naturally occur | |||||||||||||||||
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I can’t trust |
I can trust |
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I fear for the future | I live in the moment | |||||||||||||||||
I am responsible for other’s actions | I am responsible for myself | |||||||||||||||||
I expect the person to live up to my expectations | I have resigned from the "results business" | |||||||||||||||||
I try to control almost everything | I no longer try to have the exact outcome that the world requires | |||||||||||||||||
I am bound | Lord Almighty, I am free at last |